I was in a bar and she walked in with some friends of mine […] she was very soft, very quiet… very, very quiet. Incredibly polite and timid and very shy. I didn’t know at the time whether it was particular to me or just a general thing but I could see that she was in some way overwhelmed by me.
You get punished for saying certain things, even if it they’re right or not. And you get applauded for saying really fluffy things that don’t really mean anything to anybody.